big fish in a small pond or a small fish in a big pond

Is it better to be a small fish in a big pond or a big fish in a small pond?

Or is it better to realize that this life isn't a pond and we are not fish.

But like fish, we can be lured, trapped, swim free, join a school, take off and travel through the water to find new adventures.

When life give us an either/or choice it is time to look for the 3rd way. The 3rd way is our unique individual way. The way that leads to happiness and the way so that we cant be compared to fish, or others.

Keep swimming with or against the tide :)